Matthew 19:6
"Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh"
When you got married or when you do get married to the person you love; someone probably told you or will tell you this. "Don't ever tell your wife or husband everything, that way there will always be a mystery in the marriage. That my friend is a big mistake. If you start with secrets and really not knowing you spouse, you'll go through the marriage knowing them less. It fails to recognize the meaning of marriage and the meaning of love.
Transparency is the law of marriage and the couple must strive for it untiringly at the cost of confessions which are always new and sometimes hard. The maintenance part of the marriage is this: They must strive unceasingly to re-establish this Transparency for it constantly becomes tarnished, without them knowing why.
Speaking from experience : The best way to misunderstand your spouse is to think you know them. For when you do, you don't seek to understand them any longer. It is always through the exchange of secrets that man and wife re-establish their unity and develop the marriage. Why? Because the secrets becomes embedded between the two.
Transparency is no small matter for it must continually be renewed and it will overcome new obstacles. I pray that your marriage or future marriage will be as fulfilling as my late wife's and mine was. Remember there is nothing better than a true friend, and that happens only once in a lifetime; "Your Mate"
May God Bless You
And Your Families
Minister: Robert A. Lail
The Cross Life Ministry
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